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Lewe vir Sukses


Ek het baie gestoei met sukses. Wat is sukses?

Teen 25 jaar ouderdom moet jy getroud wees, ‘n motor en ‘n huis besit en ‘n volwaardige inkomste verdien.

Hierdie was die prentjie wat aan ons oorgedra was vanaf ‘n jong ouderdom. En die wat mooitjies hier in gepas het is daarvoor gerys en uitgewys as suksesvolle mense.

Maar, wat dan van die wat dít nie gemaak het nie? Was hulle dan onsuksesvol?

Stellig nie, want sukses is ‘n prentjie en elkeen moet sy of haar eie prentjie skilder. Jy kan nie iemand anders se prentjie vat en joune maak nie. Die vraag is dus “Wat is jou prentjie van sukses?”

Sommiges probeer om ‘n held, ouer of lewensmaat se prentjie uit te leef en voel dan lewensmoeg omdat dit nie vir hul werk nie. Ander het alles oor boord gegooi en lewe net om te oorleef of om daardie geldjie te maak vir die volgende stap.

Die gevolg hiervan is dat vrede en tevrede in die agtergrond begin verdwyn het en mens nie meer weet hoe om daar uit te kom nie. Verhoudings begin skade ly en niks voel goed genoeg nie, daar word altyd gestreef vir meer. Maar, meer van wat?

Ek vra weer, wat is jou prentjie van sukses?

Om suksesvol te wees, moet jy weet wat jy doen, lief wees vir wat jy doen en glo in wat jy doen (Will Rogers (1879-1935)).

Kan jy werklik sê wat sukses vir jou is? Dink jy jy is suksesvol?

Intimiteit en Aanbidding


Om werklik intiem te wees verg innerlike nabyheid. Intimiteit is gedetailleerde, innerlike, naby, bekend en persoonlik. Ons moet intiem raak in ons wandel met God.

Dit is nie moontlik om ware intimiteit te beleef sonder aanbidding nie. Ware intimiteit bring ware aanbidding. Hoe dieper jy groei in jou aanbidding van God, hoe meer word intimiteit deel van jou aanbidding en hoe meer intimiteit groei, hoe dieper en meer standvastig word jou aanbidding.

In ons wandel met God leer ons dat ons Hom meer nodig het as enige iets anders.

We need God and oxygen, in that specific order.
(Luana Bekker)

Oswald Chambers het dit so verduidelik:

Dit is moontlik om alles te weet van die leringe van die Bybel, maar geen ware kennis te hê van Jesus nie. Ons siele is in gevaar wanneer ons kennis van leringe meer word as ons intieme kontak met Jesus. Waarom het Maria geween by Jesus se graf? Leringe het maar soveel waarde as die gras onder haar voete vir haar. Enige fariseër kon Maria as ‘n dwaas af gemaak het as dit alles net oor leringe gegaan het, maar hulle sal nooit haar ervarings met Jesus kon weg redeneer nie. Toe sy haar Here se stem hoor het sy dadelik geweet dat dit Hy is wat met haar praat.
My Utmost for His Highest (August 16) (Copyright © 1935)

Ons is totaal afhanklik van God en hoe gouer ons dit besef hoe beter…

…God designed the human machine to run on God Himself.
Mere Christianity (P.50 2002 Ed.)(Copyright © 1942)

Het jy ‘n persoonlike verhouding met Jesus Christus – ‘n intieme band, ‘n kennis en ‘n wete wat deur niks geskud kan word nie? Bring dit jou na ‘n plek van liefde, respek en aanbidding? Baie mense het nie en sal graag hul verhouding met Hom wil verdiep.

Intimiteit moet ‘n natuurlik uitvloei wees waar die bonatuurlike die natuurlike word, maar ons weet nie meer hoe om dit te laat vloei nie. Die wêreld waarin ons leef het ‘n koue en hard plek geword en daar is nie meer ruimte vir intimiteit of aanbidding nie.

Intimiteit is die proses waarin jy elke fyn detail van die lewe deel met iemand naby aan jou, en aanbidding is die manier waarop jy dit deel deur die persoon te respekteer en te eer. Elke verhouding bestaan uit hierdie twee aspekte wat inmekaar verweef is, en so ook moet ons dit laat ontwikkel in ons verhouding met God. Intimiteit moet dus gekoester word.

Die vroue geslag sal dit dalk beter verstaan dat intimiteit ontwikkel wanneer jy alles met ‘n persoon deel, die goeie, die slegte en die lelike. So ook moet ons leer om dit alles met God te deel en ons intimiteit met Hom te laat groei.

Moenie oor dinge sit en tob of jou bekommer nie. Gaan praat met God daaroor. Bespreek dit met Hom. Vertel Hom hoe jy daaroor voel. Sê dan vir Hom dankie dat jy met Hom daaroor kan praat en dat Hy die beste weet. Jy sal dan verlig en tevrede voel. Jy sal hierdie verligte gevoel nie altyd kan verklaar of wetenskaplik kan uitlê nie. Omdat jy egter weet dat jy aan Jesus behoort, sal jy nie meer omgekrap voel nie. Hierdie wete dat Jesus by jou is, sal keer dat die bekommernisse weer met jou emosies weghardloop of dat jy jou weer van voor af begin bekommer. Weet julle waaraan julle moet dink in plaas daarvan om julle te sit en bekommer? Dink aan dit wat vir God saak maak, dinge wat ordentlik en reg is, dinge waaraan God sal dink en waarvan Hy sal hou, dinge wat God sal sê goed is. Moenie julle tyd mors om aan allerhande nuttelose dinge te sit en dink nie. Hou julle besig met dinge wat die moeite werd is en wat God in ’n goeie lig stel. Ek stel mos vir julle ’n goeie voorbeeld. Ek het baie dinge vir julle vertel. Julle het baie by my geleer. Wat julle my gesien doen en gehoor sê het, moet julle net so doen en sê. God sal julle nie los nie. Hy sal by julle bly. By Hom sal julle veilig en gelukkig voel.
Ek en jy is tot alles in staat omdat God vir ons sorg. (Filippense 4:6-9 [DB]).

Tydens hierdie proses waardeer God jou nabyheid met groot respek hanteer, vertel Hy jou wie hy jou geskep het om te wees en jou liefde en respek vir Hom vloei oor in aanbidding.

Hierdie proses leer jou ook intimiteit en aanbidding in al jou ander verhoudings – ouers en kinders, mans en vroue, vriende en familie en skep ‘n atmosfeer van vertroue, respek, lojaliteit, eerlikheid en integriteit. Alle sleutel aspekte wat nodig is vir enige goeie verhouding.

Die lewe gaan nie oor kennis, krag of mag nie, maar oor verhouding. Ons het nodig om die eenvoud van hierdie geskenk (verhouding) in besit te neem en ‘n lewe te lewe waar ons alles rondom ons kan geniet. Wetende dat ons intimiteit en aanbidding se doel is om hierdie boodskap uit te dra aan almal wat nodig het om dit te hoor.

Ek bid dat jy ook so ‘n verhouding met Hom kan ontwikkel en dat jy net sal groei in jou intimiteit en aanbidding.

 

Ek het julle gemaak en Ek sal julle vashou


Ek het julle gemaak en Ek sal julle vashou

Be anxious for nothing


And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?  (Luke 12:25).
And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? (Luke 12:25).

Remember!!!


You know what, I need help to remember! Maybe you need to be reminded also.

I tend to forget that we are invited into God’s rest daily. He wants us to come to Him, find rest in Him and be secure in Him. I need to be reminded of that like David wrote in Psalm 27:

One thing I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: to live in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to inquire in his temple. For he will hide me in his shelter in the day of trouble; he will conceal me under the cover of his tent; he will set me high on a rock.
(Psalms 27:4-5)

The invitation goes like this:

Today, if you hear His voice, enter into His rest.

The only thing that disqualify you from entering into His rest is disobedience and unbelief. This means that we must trust and believe that God invited us, and then enter in. We cannot enter into His rest as long as any of these negative sinful things rule our lives. BUT God invites us to come to Him. When we are willing to let go of these lies and trust completely in His unfailing love for us, we enter into His rest…

Jesus said:

If anyone serves Me, let him follow Me; and where I am, there My servant will also be. And if anyone serves Me, the Father will honour him.
(John 12:26)

All to often we come to the Lord with a wish-list or a list of requirements. We “claim in Jesus name” and “demand his promises” over us. When will we realize that God’s will is done in our lives when we move into his presence? When will we realize that God wants us to be in Him so that He can have His way, His will be done in us?
C.A.M.

…In him we live and move and have our being…
(Acts 17:28)

The best place to be is with Jesus Christ. We need to be conscious of His Presence every minute of every day. Let us make an effort to start each day with Jesus and ask Him to help us to follow Him this day…!

Blessings
Thomas Dreyer

Wysheid wat God gee


Ons het verseker wysheid nodig elke dag!

Hoekom vra ons dan nie vir dit nie?
Jakobus leer ons dan om vir wysheid te vra as ons dit nodig het en:

… die Wysheid wat God gee, is rein. Daardie Wysheid maak vrede tussen mense, dit is vriendelik en luister na die dinge wat ander mense vra, Wysheid is goed vir mense, dit is soos ‘n boom wat goeie vrugte dra, Wysheid dink nie dat een mens belangriker is as ‘n ander nie, en dit is nie skynheilig nie. Mense wat reg doen, maak vrede tussen mense, en hulle lewe self ook in vrede.
(Jakobus 3:17-18).

The Other Name for Peace : JESUS


Grace to you, and peace from God our Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ.
(Ephesians 1:2).

Grace to you: God gives it and we as people can also give it. But He is the only one who can give PEACE!

Peace from God our Father: He is the giver of all good things, everything needed for life and Godliness. EVERYTHING that has got to do with HIM!!! He is our Father who conceived us in His heart before the foundation of the world. He cannot but love us! He wants us to be so consumed with Him, even as He is truly consumed with us. His thoughts toward us are for good and not evil.

How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them!
If I would count them, they are more than the sand
(Psalm 139:17-18).

AND Peace from the Lord Jesus Christ: God gave the consummation of His peace through His most prized possession, His SON! He made His SON PEACE. "Jesus is our Peace". He made His PEACE, in the PERSON of JESUS CHRIST, visible, comprehendable, receivable and applicable in the lives of those who are asking for it!

Being Jesus Christ: Man reaching to God, all we need to do is ask

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
(Philippians 4:7).

Christ Jesus: God reaching to man this time. A relationship where God meets our needs and gives us good things and give it even before we ask.

When we ask for God’s PEACE, we are in fact asking for HIS SON JESUS: THE PRINCE OF PEACE! This PEACE being Jesus Himself: He loves us just as the Father loves us !

For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility
(Ephesians 2:14).

The FATHER , SON AND THE HOLY SPIRIT LOVES US SO MUCH THAT THIS PEACE IS A REALITY IN OUR LIVES! Jesus becomes REAL. We can truly Know Him, and experience the most AMAZING relationship that we will ever have….

Thank you Father for revealing yourself through Jesus and for giving us your Holy Spirit to teach us about you.

Daily Quiet Time


What you put in is what you will get out…

You man, you woman… Pray to stay together – to be held together…

Niks kan ons beter troos nie as die helder wete dat ons, midde-in ons ellende, deur die God van Liefde vasgehou word – Johannes Calvyn.

Practice the presence of God – the Gifts of the Holy Spirit…

We sometimes need to remember that we are only dust…

For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.
(Psalms 103:14).

Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.
(2 Corinthians 3:17-18).

What then, brothers? When you come together, each one has a hymn, a lesson, a revelation, a tongue, an interpretation. Let all things be done for building up.
(1 Corinthians 14:26).

I realised that we do not embrace our humanity. We want to be strong and powerful, but even David said that God remembers that we are only dust. You have to embrace your own humanity and then others… It is that we are frail and limited, not able to carry, performer and give what life demands from us daily. You may be offended and believe that you are able to do all of this, but are you?

Because Jesus experienced temptation when he suffered, he is able to help others when they are tempted.
(Hebrews 2:18).

And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, he departed and went out to a desolate place, and there he prayed.
(Mark 1:35).

But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
(Matthew 6:6).

We have a God that knows and understands who we truly are. We want to be strong and live this daily living as overcomers, but we will fail if we forget our humanity.

All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation;
(2 Corinthians 5:18).

The Letter to the Philippians gives us a glimpse of the frailty of humanity, the embrace thereof and the knowing that we are utterly depended on a God that knows and understands this even more than we do.

Are you willing to acknowledge your humanity in total dependence on God?
Will you become a vessel filled and overflowing with all of this becoming a carrier thereof? Mankind needs to know the truth – we are not as strong and invincible as we might think we are…

When I worried about many things, your assuring words soothed my soul.
(Psalms 94:19).

A song for going up to worship. O LORD, out of the depths I call to you. O Lord, hear my voice. Let your ears be open to my pleas for mercy. O LORD, who would be able to stand if you kept a record of sins? But with you there is forgiveness so that you can be feared. I wait for the LORD, my soul waits, and with hope I wait for his word. My soul waits for the LORD more than those who watch for the morning, more than those who watch for the morning. O Israel, put your hope in the LORD, because with the LORD there is mercy and with him there is unlimited forgiveness. He will rescue Israel from all its sins.
(Psalms 130:1-8).

We need to come to the full knowledge and understanding of our humanity – that we are nothing with out God. The fact that we even have a breath is a gift from God for He breathed into the nostrils of man the breath of life and man became a living soul.

Knowing that I am nothing and Jesus is my all in all – my source of life.

It is all about
RELATIONSHIP

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
(John 1:1).

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
(Colossians 3:16).

Know the word of God, memorize verses and make it your own.

Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.
(James 1:21).

But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have firmly believed, knowing from whom you learned it and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.
(2 Timothy 3:14-17).

Have I not written for you long ago excellent sayings of counsel and knowledge, to make you know for certain what is right and true, that you may give a true answer to those who sent you?
(Proverbs 22:20-21).

Are we going to take hold of this life we have received, no matter what? The lives we live are tough and we face confrontations and challenges daily. Each and everyone that met with God will still have these confrontations and challenges, but it will seem different, because we look at it through different eyes. This new life is first a dying and secondly a resurrection. We succeed only when we die to live.

Jesus Said:

…If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me.
(Luke 9:23)

Taking up your cross is the process of dying; it is your walk towards death. Jesus’ words was that we have to die daily, not just carry a heavy load…

Our success lies in the way we die…

No matter what the circumstances are we must die daily to everything else and live for Him, our Lord God and King, our Life-giver. For true life is only found in Him. When we die to everything else the salvation we found in Him becomes our resurrection…

John the Baptist said:

He must increase, but I must decrease.
(John 3:30)

and Paul said:

…that I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable to His death; if by any means I might attain to the resurrection of the dead.
(Philippians 3:10-11)

We have to begin each day with God, dying if need be. We have some good traditions and habits, but we also have bad traditions and habits. These bad things must be killed daily in order for us to follow Him. Killing these bad habits is hard and at times it feels like we are dying with it, but do not fear for HE is our resurrection!!!

I don’t know about you, but I don’t die easy. Dying is painful and tough. I cling to stuff that I should actually let go of, which only increase the intensity of the whole dying process. Dying to self does not come easy, but it is possible and together we can do it. It is important to know that you cannot do it alone, you need God first and also the support of family or friends that are willing to walk to death with you that you may “attain to the resurrection of the dead”

Met Erkenning ook aan Marlene Steyn.

Oproep tot ‘n tyd van vas en gebed vir die Verkiesing!


Die Oproep is vir almal wat deel wil wees (nie verpligtend nie).

Waarvoor vas en bid ons?

DIE 22ste APRIL 2009 STEM SUID AFRIKA
National Day of Prayer for elections
Tydens hierdie paar dae voor die verkiesing bid ons vir ons land, volk en nasie en spesifiek vir die verkiesing. Ons spreek God se wysheid, genesing, versoening en liefde uit oor ons land Suid Afrika.

NB! Die Here se vraag aan ons is:

KAN ‘n NASIE NA DIE HERE TERUGKEER?

Elkeen van ons moet bereid wees om ‘n verskil te maak in alles waarby ons betrokke is. Bid vir jou omgewing – werk, huis, woonbuurt, vriende, familie ens.

Gebed is een van die belangrikste elemente in die proses van transformasie.

Voorgestelde gebedstye:

  • Oggende (al is dit net vir 5 min.; indien moontlik 1 uur) Hand. 3:1
  • Middae (etenstye; 5 – 25 min.).
  • Aande (5 min. – 1 uur) Alleen of saam met jou familie.

Hou ‘n daaglikse dagboek van wat jy van die Here hoor en ervaar en leef dan in die seën daarvan.

Kom deel gerus met ons dit wat jy van die Here ontvang het.

Wie is Abba Vader?


Jesus het in die tyd van Sy diepste nood uitgeroep “Abba Vader” (Markus 14:36)!

In Johannes 17:23 lees ons:

Ek in hulle en U in My, sodat hulle volkome een kan wees; en dat die wêreld kan weet dat U My gestuur het, en hulle liefgehad het net soos U My liefgehad het.

Ek is oortuig daarvan dat ons ook in tye van nood kan uitroep “Abba Vader”!

Laat ons dan met vrymoedigheid na die troon van die genade gaan, sodat ons barmhartigheid kan verkry en genade vind om op die regte tyd gehelp te word.
(Hebreërs 4:16.)

Wees oor niks besorg nie, maar laat julle begeertes in alles deur gebed en smeking met danksegging bekend word by God. En die vrede van God, wat alle verstand te bowe gaan, sal julle harte en julle sinne bewaar in Christus Jesus. Verder, broeders, alles wat waar is, alles wat eerbaar is, alles wat regverdig is, alles wat rein is, alles wat lieflik is, alles wat loflik is—watter deug en watter lof daar ook mag wees, bedink dit. En wat julle geleer en ontvang en gehoor en in my gesien het, doen dit, en die God van vrede sal met julle wees.
(Filippense 4:6-9.)

Kom na My toe, almal wat vermoeid en belas is, en Ek sal julle rus gee.
(Matthéüs 11:28.)

Hierdie bevestiging het ons soms nodig om te weet dat ons aan Hom behoort, dat Hy ons baie lief het en ons volkome een is…

John Eldredge verduidelik dit ook baie mooi in A Christmas Devotion !